Steel Chastity Belts as well as Chastity Devices – Three Common Myths Debunked

A steel chastity belt enforcing strict orgasm refusal and access to his penis is the dream of many a person. And it’s easy to see why, due to the many, many benefits associated with male chastity and orgasm denial that countless couples around the world can attest to.

However the is actually, the reality is clouded through unlikely and impossible fantasies, as is often the case with this particular kind of factor.

Even though you can claim such fantasies are harmless, and while it’s true they are harmless in the main, it’s also true they may be harmful as well as damaging to those serious couples who actually swallow the fantasy as fact.

So right now we’re likely to consider the three biggest myths about metal chastity belts and devices.

  1. There is a “best” belt or chastity gadget . Sadly, this is simply not correct. There are lots of, different makes and they’re produced from materials as diverse as polycarbonate, stainless steel as well as titanium. And also the only real way of measuring their relative worth is how nicely they meet your needs . Several men, for instance , discover the polycarbonate devices quite effective, even for long-term utilize; but other guys, like my hubby, David, found they were effectively useless because he could nonetheless masturbate while wearing it. There is usually no alternative but to test a few devices and, based on how serious you are, choose a higher-end custom-made device. Yes, they’re expensive, but you might be putting on the device for the long time, and if male chastity is important for you, then it’s worth the investment. A belt you don’t wear because it’s uncomfortable or causes soreness or simply doesn’t suit properly is among the most expensive gadget you will ever put on. You might search for you wind up buying several fairly costly device because the 1 you hoped is the One True Device didn’t work out in practice. The key is determination. If you would like chastity badly enough, then you will stay with it — as well as, believe me personally, it’s worth it over time.
  2. You can just use it and neglect it . This is a common lie: “my wife secured it on me when i was asleep and today I can’t get it off, as well as I’ve been locked like this for six months”. Truth is, a good device takes some effort to get on. As it should, because a gadget that’s too simple to get in is probably a poor suit and will probably be simple to escape from. More than that, though, you need time to let your entire body adjust to wearing it. You will see the unavoidable chafing and a little soreness, just as there is with a new pair of shoes. So take your time in order to let it all settle down. There is absolutely no be quick.
  3. They can be 100% secure . Nope. Another lie. No metal chastity belt or some other male chastity device may ever be completely secure. Any one of them can be removed with the kind of simple tools every man has in his garage, albeit with some (perhaps considerable) damage to it. More than that, many men can, with enough effort and determination, bring themselves in order to orgasm wearing a belt or other gadget. They are nothing more than a prevention, the amount of deterrence being set by the man’s need to remain chaste and also to some extent by the style, character and material from the device by itself.

We realise what I’ve written above might be disappointing to you, however it’s the facts. And entering male chastity with ideas and expectations based on lies will simply create disappointment.

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  • Yoshi:

    I’m a 15 year old boy and i would love to buy a male chastity i know masturbating is ok… but i really would like to stop i think i do it to much.. also i would like to prevent myself from having sex. please help me.. thank you.

  • Nathan B:

    ok so we all know that they will be extremely pent up but i mean is it physically harmful to use a cb300 or lori tube woudl aslo like ot know how they feel if anyone knows would appericate any stories or experience form serious people only please i am seriously considering a lori 12

  • josh12rox:

    wearing male chastity device

  • Goe122:

    OK, so I’ve been reading about male chastity belts and for some reason I really like the idea of knowing I wouldn’t be able to cheat on my GF, not that I slip up that often but this way I’d feel totally dedicated to her. My question is whether they really work for this, because I’ve read that you can get anything off if you try hard enough. Has anyone had any experience? Are they enough to discourage you if say you’ve had a few too many and lose your judgment? Are they too much of a hassle? And for the women here, if your BF suggested this to you would you think it’s OK or decide that he’s totally nuts? (Not that I’m not, LOL.)
    It seems you can pee through them easily enough. Here’s an example:

  • Shay H:

    The pic:
    So if the girlfriend keeps the key, how to the guys shower and get completely showered and clean?

  • Johnky J:

    It is well known 3W -wine , women and wealth has destroyed many potential men. Dhoni is target from glamour world. Urvishies and Meinkas are out to distract Dhoni from his Sadahana. Pl protect him.
    Put a male chastity belt on him with electronic security lock and key card be deposited with Sharad Power.
    Dhoni is a money spinning machines for BCCI and many corporate. All the stakeholders must move to protect their interests. If national/public interest is protected it would be bonus.

  • Stevalicious:

    Okay let me try to explain this…the official site of this thing is

    But I found it on ebay for a cheaper price..
    If the link doesn’t work just go on ebay and write in “male chastity belt” it’s the first one.
    Now what I don’t understand is that it says THIS IS A PRIVATE SALE and what does that mean I don’t really understand ebay?
    And the most messed up thing that I could think of happening is that the person who is selling it so cheap already used it…now what happens if when I get it it’s not in it’s package like it’s supposed to be??
    I know there is a lot of questions but I am just suspicious why it’s so cheap.

  • stingerms:

    Recently, my girlfriend and I have been looking at male chastity devices as a means for adding a bit of spice into our relationship. Not that there is anything wrong, it just sounds like it could be quite erotic. I am more of a grower than a shower so have been looking at the CB6000 range of products but was wondering if anyone has any advice or views on this subject?

  • norrin_shadowwolf:

    I swear, everytime a male dog sees my adorable lab, they want to go crazy smelling her booty, trying to see if she is “in heat”. She is already submissive so that doesn’t help. Does she still give out pheromones or signals that she is submissive or can the alpha males just tell? Thanks.

  • Erin:

    Is there much emphasis put on male chastity, or do people mainly focus on keeping girls pure? In other words, is there still the double standard
    I know scriptures advocate male and female chastity equally. I’m talking about how it’s viewed in practice

  • The Inc:

    surgery to become male?

  • PolishPokeyPimp:

    I think it would be great sometimes to have chemical castration, or a chastity belt to keep away the darkside of male puberty. The overwhelming sexual feelings, the masturbation, the unwanted attention that girls receive from guys when the guys go through puberty.

    Anybody can answer if you ever thought just for a moment they might be a good idea. I am not advocating this but from time to time wished I could have escaped the feelings.

  • Gage:

    She doesn’t trust me when shes not around, and want to keep me under lock and key.

  • Jesse:

    I am looking for a female chastity belt. I have found many good places to buy male belts, but I need a female one. If you know of anywhere that sells them fairly cheap that are conferable. It will be worn for long periods of time so confert is essential.

    Thanks in advance,

  • Jesse:

    I recently got really intetested in male chastity devices, the only thing is that they’re quite expensive for me. Does anyone know where I can buy a good one for a really good price?

  • Cpt Excelsior:

    I have a presentation on Wednesday on the medieval history of chastity belts. The only websites I can find are bdsm sites, and my university library is useless. I know this is probably not going to help, but here’s a last ditch effort before I go and cry to my prof…lol.

  • Squall Leonhart:

    This is a totally hypothetical question. I have no intent on doing this to anyone (I’m not a parent.) Also, this isn’t gender specific since there are belts made for males and females. I know a lot of parents don’t want their teens to be sexually active, yet many choose to be anyway. How would you react if this was a legal process and your parents chose to have you belted?

  • Denali:

    I was looking at some male chastity devices online. Apparently, these devices prevent a man from getting a full erection, much less masturbating or having sex.
    I was considering purchasing one to help me and my fiancee abstain until marriage, since I find it difficult to wait longer than a week or two before giving in to masturbation or fornication.
    Would it be okay to use one of these devices until I’m married? For anyone is doesnt know what these devices are, here is an link to one.
    I’m serious people. Hopefully some mature answers will be posted soon. *sighs*

  • ademuth93:

    I own a cb3000, but its not too comfortable and slips off. I’m thinking about getting the watchful mistress. Anyone have any suggestions?

  • davemc74656:

    any tips from people with experience?

  • Nathan B:

    Cousin’s kid…

    He is low IQ, couple of grade levels behind, and has done it at school, and in front of guests.

    Should circumcision be threatened? Or just done if he can’t wait until he is in his room alone to play with it? His momma wants to threaten him that if he can’t learn to wait then she can get a doctor to snip it and it won’t feel as good as it used to, and it will hurt.

    How about locking his penis in a male chastity device from the adult fetish sites? Could they have a practical purpose? I think locking his goods up while he is at school may be the best way to go.

  • Jose B:

    I like th eidea of using male chastity but the CB 2000, 300 etc are Ssssssoooo exppensive. Are there any cheaper ones or has anyone a second hand one. I dont care if its second hand as long as it works

  • everydayGuitarist:

    so im a 18 year old college student with a masturbation problem. im highly addicted to it and masturbate 4-6 times per day its ruining my grades because its all i can think about. so im thinking of spending the 200$ for a male chastity device id probably give the keys to a friend without explanation im sure he will go for it without many questions. any way im wondering if not having access to my penis will reduce my sex drive after a while. so would this just make me horneir or would the long term lack of access would hlep me focus.

  • PIE BOY:

    my hubby and i have been married for 9 years for the last 6 months ive been keeping him in chastity letting himn out for sex every 1-2 weeks however hes been complaining about being horny alot lately. will milking his prostate reduce his sex drive.

  • sethburger:

    cb 6000 is male chastity device, where can I buy it in india or on line. I am based in chennai. Is there any possible way to buy without using my credit card. Is there any shops in India? If any body is selling these kind of things plz do tell me.
    If any one bought any sex toys please share it here.

  • Con Orpe:

    I’m 15 male and im addicted to masturbation. i know its normal but it makes me act sexual with every girl i know and just makes me feel bad. i wanna stop. i realized its a problem when i thought about it and noticed i havent gone more than 5 days without doing it in 2 years. i just wanna stop. any ideas, i already tried doing a hobby and stuff like than. thanks guys

  • The Beatles:

    I own a cb3000, but its not too comfortable and slips off. I’m thinking about getting the watchful mistress. Anyone have any suggestions?

  • nick s:

    Matthew 19:4: “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female.’”
    Mark 10:6: “But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female.’”

    If so, can we conclude that no one is predestined to exclusive same-sex attraction, which is a temptation to serious sin?

  • Xbox Gamer:

    i have 2 baby goats. A buck and doe.
    We havent “fixed” either yet because we are considering breeding in the future
    everyone says its dangerous for her to get pregnant to early. She has not gone into heat yet and I dont want to separate them till i have too.
    Is it the act of sex or birth that is dangerous.

    Do they make chastity belts for goats?? Is there a way to handle this with out taking them away from each other. At one point must i separate them
    and what from my question of being a caring concerned pet owner would lead you to tell me not to have kids?

  • norrin_shadowwolf:

    Wondering how to make one for me and girl to do some denial play. She likes to dominate me. So if anyone has any clue post it; links, or info

  • Hannah:

    Ladies, how familiar are you with male chastity through the use of a male chastity device? Is it something you would find fun or very useful in your relationship, or is it not something that interests your or your partner?

  • opurt:

    I’ve always loved British period dramas in the romantic and Victorian era, whether it be literature or film, including Pride and Prejudice, Emma, Wuthering Heights, and recently, the television show Downton Abbey. I have always been curious about male chastity when entering into marriage… Although women were expected to be virgins when they were married, were men as well? Or did many of the men (especially upper class men) have mistresses or use prostitutes beforehand, behind the scenes? I am just curious about this because to me, it seems unlikely that young men would wait so long to have sex. Is there any information out there about this? Thank you so much in advance for your answers!

  • xiM Clutch:

    I am looking for both male and female english names that would fit in the Victorian era.

  • Jesse:

    I think we’ve all gone to school with the 13 year old girl who kept sneaking out to have sex with grown men in their twenties and either got pregnant or a horrible disease. I knew a few of those. Should her mother have the right to put her in a belt that makes intercourse impossible in these extreme cases?

    And they also have male devices that fit over the penis in the opposite situation.

  • andresumoza:

    I can see that this place is a dead loss.

  • Ev dog:

    Is there much emphasis put on male chastity, or do people mainly focus on keeping girls pure? Like conservative christians, hindus, or muslims

  • tjpimpin:

    my girlfriend whisper this stuff to me in a club the other day. does it have something to do with being the only white guy in the club?

  • Pacman:

    im masturbating every day,i want to stop that bad habit,my friends suggest to wear male chastity to avoid masturbating..its that good idea?

  • nmlpc:

    I live in the uk, and I’m 14 and want to wear one. No-one’s forcing me, though.

  • Rassling Fundamentals:

    What is it, and what do you do with it?

  • Michael K:

    What are your thoughts on the modern male chastity device? Would you put one on your bf/husband if he asked? Would you ever ask him? Do you think there would be benefits to controlling when he is allowed to release?

  • diggn4richez:

    In ancient days males were wearing female dresses,wigs & then doing female make up for playing female roles.But why not females?What was the reason?Maximum of them were not looking like a real female.Why females were not permitted to play role in drama?This tradition is now also available in few villages.

  • Random:

    i have 2 locks if necissary but i want to know if anyone knows how to make a cheap, comfterbal, and good male chastity. please tell if so.

  • BRUTE:

    My wife and I have been looking into purchasing me a chastity device. Although she is not a total domme we both enjoy tease and denial and would like to incorporate chastity into this. Does anyone have any experience with male chastity devices? If so what would you recommend?

  • Myles:

    If you google male chastity there are metal devices the penis can be locked up in that prevents sexual activity. Should these devices be installed on prisoners to fight the rape problem?

  • Jairo:

    I’m well aware that it’s not legal, and I have no intention to do so (I’m not even a parent). I was just curious if this is something you would consider as a form of prevention or even a form of punishment for a sexually active teenager (either male or female, there are belts made for both.) I know talking to your teen is the best option, but more often than not they seem to go through with it anyway. What do you think?

  • ibjammin44:

    I have noticed mostly where young woman are concerned that they seem to be substantially more open to things once considered kink such as male and female chastity devices bisexuality role and gender reversal strap on fetishes so forth and so on why do you think this has come about? What do you think?

  • Keaton:

    I have a question for the women here. So I feel like I have been having too much extracurricular activities (Not with other women just by myself). I feel this is bad and want to save myself for my wife only.

    So I suggested a male chastity device to her and having her hold the keys so that I can only play when she wants to. She got very mad and said it was weird and super disgusting. I realize this isn’t going to happen now but I was wondering do most women feel this same way? It seems so innocent and just a tool to use to me! What do you think?
    I will agree it is a little wierd and different. I have tried to stop like everyone is suggesting but guess my drive is too strong for my willpower :( I know she trusts me and has no reason not to I love her and her only. As far as peeing lol they are made so you can live a normal life lol
    @SheLoves I don’t feel it is bad at all. It is something I have been doing daily at a minimum for the last 20+ years. I just feel if I am not doing it all that energy would be focused at my wife instead :)
    @SheLoves I don’t feel it is bad at all. It is something I have been doing daily at a minimum for the last 20+ years. I just feel if I am not doing it all that energy would be focused at my wife instead :)

  • baldy eire:

    They let their women to be kissed or even be banged by other males.
    They are modern and cool. What is the origin of this civilized behavior? eating pork or drinking wine?
    The only concern of christian males is money and beers. You can touch their women but not their food.
    I would like to behave like them. Should I convert to Christianity to become as cool as them?

  • krow147:

    Men abstaining from sexual relation until they get married. I know this is more common among women, but how do you feel about men doing this?

  • soccermaster1:

    What is my crime? Cant deny this, or the invention of chastity belts.

  • isk8at818:

    Why convert to a religion that allows your husband to get other wives if he so chooses?
    I’ve met a lot of young Saudi men who say they can’t wait to get their 4 wives – when their period of chastity is over.

  • Jamal:

    I’m a male virgin that is attractive and dates but I want to keep my virginity for my future wife as I have religious convictions. Is there anyone out there that would encourage a virgin guy to stay that way and use a male chastity device to help him remain a virgin while dating till marriage?

  • Jerosh Nagulachandran:

    If you google male chastity you will see that there are locking devices that can lock a man’s genitals to prevent sexual activity. Should men behind bars have to wear them combat the awful rape problem in prisons?

  • Cliffy N:

    Or her male relatives chose him for her. And If she doesn’t like him can she tell her father that she doesn’t want to marry him or she will be punished if she gave her opinion?

  • toast:

    I know a lot of people wear “promise rings” to show chastity, but should chastity include kissing as well?

    What do you think? I’ve seen some people who think kissing–and more– before marriage is all right, while some make an arguement that just kissing before marriage is fine, and some think total chastity is best.

  • Blake:

    Turn on network television during prime time any night of the week, and note the statistically way over-represented gays.

    If there has always been the same number of gays, there is a reason we are being fed this propaganda that they are more prevalent than they actually are.

    Watch any sitcom and try to find a good white male role model anymore. There are none. They are constantly portrayed as bumbling yet lovable oafs, or psychos.

  • Disrae:

    How do girls and women feel about guys staying a virgin till marriage and what would they think of a guy of he told them he was in chastity till he got married?
    Also, would they date him even if they knew that they wouldn’t be having sex?

  • brincks26:

    So I’m a 16 year old christian male and I’m very passionate about sexual purity. I have a great hatred for the sexualisation of the media in today’s society. But ever since the divorce of my parents and my dad’s confession of homosexuality, I’ve been stuck in hole of masturbation and pornography. Although I’ve been fighting it for the last three years, I can’t seem to go without it for any longer than a month. If there is any advice or hints/tips on breaking the cycle… I’m dying to know!

  • Mackenzie P:

    I’m just saying if gay people are punished by God (supposed) then what about hermorphordites. I don’t see anything in the bible that cover this. Some of those people need operations and they still don’t know
    which way is up. Not to mention people like Chastity Bono?

  • Pacman:

    I’m 16 years old, I masturbate alot and i’m worried that its distracting me from school and stuff. I heard about a 15 year old whos father placed him in chastity and that hes better for it now.

  • norrin_shadowwolf:

    My wife and I practice male chastity, but I must admit, I have managed to slip out of the device I currently wear on several occasions and “cheat”. My wife busted me for it recently and is now insisting that I find something that is completely escape proof. Does anyone know of any devices out there that absolutely cannot be removed without the key?
    Why all the hate? I’m just looking for someone to share his or her experience with the subject and the LGBT area was automatically suggested.
    It’s not that I don’t want to do it, it’s just that temptation is too great sometimes and if there’s a way out, I succumb no matter how hard I try to resist. Are there any devices out there that are secure?
    Your advice is not helpful, as she loves the lifestyle as much as I do and doesn’t want to give it up. She knows how weak I am and doesn’t want to take my word for it. You’re right, maybe I do want to escape after I’ve been in it for weeks, I can’t help that, but my wife is committed to taking what was once simply my fantasy and turn it into something real. She doesn’t want me to have any further control or decide any longer. The device we’re currently using is just too flimsy and makes it way to easy to succumb to temptation, she has decided that we need to find something more secure and foolproof. If you are simply going to criticize us and not offer us any assistance, then it will do us no good.

  • Taylor G:

    If any of you are out drinking in Blackpool on saturday night wear a red rose and i will buy you a drink!

  • maskills24:

    Who here would volunteer to go into chastity for their wife/girlfriend? This means you would wear a chastity device and have all orgasms controlled by their wife/girlfriend. It would be an extreme committment to fidelity for sure. Would you do it?

  • kerrin marz:

    Hi, I want to surprise my bf with a chastity device, just for fun, to spice up our sex life. I’m really into the ‘cbt’ things, and I looking for a great chastity device, but i cannot decide, which one should I choose:
    I read about this one a lot:
    But I find THIS one more ‘sexier’ :
    Just I ‘m afraid when I’m gonna lick his willy through the second chastity device( the chrome one,it has bigger and wider open spaces) he will easily can come…And the party is over :) )
    what do you think?

  • Keegan:

    Ok so I’m at work right now so I can’t see certain sites. But from what I’ve gathered this CB 6000 is a device you can put on your man’s penis and he can’t have sex or even masturbate without your approval b/c you have the key to it. Is this correct? And does this thing really work?

    *evil grin* i might buy my hubby a present lol
    lol what’s a shill??? But yea i heard about it from this lady I work with. My man would probably kick my ass for buying that lol but I guess some do where it
    i wonder can he pee with it on??? and thanks for those links! will definitely check em when i get home
    lol no i’m not a shilly willy lmao i could imagine someone doing somethin like that. like those dating sites that say “come look at my private pics” then it takes you to a pay site. those friggin jerks
    thanx princess! and thank all of you guys

  • nyyankees1123:

    i want to know which is best for me. i find a website sell it.
    which can i buy. who can help me.

  • ibjammin44:

    My boyfriend is a little.. different. He was gender confused for a long time (before we started dating), but finally became comfortable with his body and decided he is definitely straight (likes only girls). However, he is into some fetishes, like feminization (where guys are forced to be dressed like girls, etc). He dresses up sometimes, and I play along.. although I’m not 100% comfortable with it, I love him and want him to be happy.

    Well, I have had trust issues in all my relationships… I feel because we live so far apart, he is probably watching porn and stuff. He swears he loves only me and doesn’t watch porn or look at other girls. So, now he came up with the idea of a male chastity belt.

    He said he wants to wear one to prove he loves only me and that he is loyal. I see it as him getting another fantasy of his to come true. When we first started our relationship he mentioned this and said it would be a big turn on to have me hold the key and basically control his sex life. He keeps saying that the CB6000 (a fancy $200 male chastity belt) will save our relationship and he only wants it for me. I think he only wants it for him. What do you think??

    Also, if any of you guys have one or wear one, do you still watch porn while wearing it?? Does it give you more of a desire for porn or to cheat once it’s off? Can you masturbate with it on? Thanks!