Not Worthless
I don’t know if it’s the time we live in or if it was always like this. People with personal problems is absolutely taboo and we are all shielding ourselves so that no one will know if we have problems and so that we have an excuse for not noticing other people - who might have problems and what is worse - not helping them out. That’s the way I feel about a relative of mine who is an alcoholic.
I see how his employers are using him to do all kinds of work at ridiculous hours because the man simply can’t say no. This is why - he told me this - he became an alcoholic in the first place - he simply could not say no! If his co-workers were drinking so were he and as you might can guess he wasn’t the only one with a problem - as I see it he were dragged down with them - just to stay as a part of the fellowship.
You don’t HAVE to solve other people’s problems - and of course - sometimes you can’t but you are obliged to at least try helping where you can. Suggest attending a alcohol rehab program or help clean up, cook or something special so this person don’t have to feel even more worthless to life and people.
I don’t believe it’s a choice you have - I believe it’s a duty. Tell the people who needs to hear it the most that they are of value - if not that much to society - then at least to you.
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